Marlon Nauyala's Blog

 Forgiving simply means loving someone enough to pursue healing instead of punishment when they have wronged you. Committed partners offer forgiveness after a betrayal more readily than less committed partners do. It is really crucial to forgive each other in a relationship, to regain the trust and the love you have for that specific person. I can assure you that you can forgive easily if you really love that person, no matter what he/she did. Forgiveness is beneficial for the body and mind, which enables you to let go off the hurt and  anger. It strengthens the relationship. It helps repair relationships.

 If you are being true to yourself, it is easier to act in ways that build intimacy in relationships and that is going to make your relationship more fulfilling. Staying true to yourself does not mean you  should accept all of flaws and not try to make positive changes in your life, but you should be aware of both your limitations and areas where you can improve. If you go out with your friends, never stop because of a relationship that you just got into, like that you have changed the way you are already and you are trying to act in a way you are not. Respect yourself, never be violated by your partner. Learn to say no to whatever you don't like and always love yourself before anyone else

     I don't know if its only me that asks myself why women call other women, telling them to stop calling, texting and seeing  their boyfriends ,as if  it was the woman that approached the guy. You know what SIS....? The person you should be dealing with and resolving this issue with is your so called BOYFRIEND, YOUR MAN that isn't behaving and  not sticking to one. Don't get me wrong that I am suggesting that the ''other woman''  is innocent in all this, but the fact of the matter is, if you deal with your man, that woman ceases to be the problem. Don't treat the symptoms, treat the cause!   Your man sees women every single day. He interacts with them, flirt, talks and gets involved with some. If you happen to find out about one of them, where is the logic of calling that woman? I swear, I would understand if you were just calling the woman to verify or to confirm your suspicions. but to call a woman and say: ''LEAVE  MY MAN ALONE!'' I...

  Trust is a super important part of a healthy relationship, but it’s something that many people struggle with, for a lot of different reasons. What does trust mean? Trusting someone means that you think they are reliable, you have confidence in them and you feel safe with them physically and emotionally. Trust is something that two people in a relationship can build together when they decide to trust each other. You can’t demand or prove trust; trusting someone is a choice that you make.

  When you’re considering a committed relationship with someone special, take time to figure out exactly what you’re getting into. After all, your love is a gift. Don’t you want that gift going to someone who truly deserves it? These green flags will help you decide if you’ve found someone worthy of your love: 1. You Can Be Yourself You don’t feel like you’re performing or acting in a way that is not authentic to your true self. You also feel like you can be honest and speak your mind without fear of judgment or ridicule. It’s important to start from a genuine understanding of one another; otherwise, you’ll be building your relationship upon lies and that never ends well. 2. You Find Yourself Laughing And Smiling A Lot You enjoy being around them. It’s really that simple. In the early stages of a relationship, feeling good in one anothers presence is a green flag. Do you feel joyful? Are you smiling more than you usually do? Are your friends noticing a positive change i...

 NOW  because Conversations became texting,   Arguments became phone calls,   Feelings became subliminal messages,   Sex became easy, The word ''love'' is used out of context, Insecurities became a way of thinking, Getting jealous became a habit, Trust is hard to come by,  Being hurt became natural and Leaving became the only option. TOO SAD BUT TRUE,SO IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT'S WORTH IT...... DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED, YOU GOT TO FIGHT FOR IT & DO NOT LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!