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GRAMMAR USAGE: TENSES

 I will do a recap on the Verbs first, Introduce the topic of the day which is TENSES  I will  ask the learners prior knowledge about Tenses. I will explain the types of tenses which are: Present simple tense, Past simple tense and Future simple tense. I will test their knowledge by asking them to paste correct TENSE CARDS next to the right sentence on the Poster to see if they understand and let them ask me  questions where they don't understand. CLICK ON THE VIDEO BELOW TO WATCH ME TEACHING, THANK YOU    

FORGIVENESS

 Forgiving simply means loving someone enough to pursue healing instead of punishment when they have wronged you. Committed partners offer forgiveness after a betrayal more readily than less committed partners do. It is really crucial to forgive each other in a relationship, to regain the trust and the love you have for that specific person. I can assure you that you can forgive easily if you really love that person, no matter what he/she did. Forgiveness is beneficial for the body and mind, which enables you to let go off the hurt and  anger. It strengthens the relationship. It helps repair relationships.

BE WHO YOU ARE IN THE RELATIONSHIP

 If you are being true to yourself, it is easier to act in ways that build intimacy in relationships and that is going to make your relationship more fulfilling. Staying true to yourself does not mean you  should accept all of flaws and not try to make positive changes in your life, but you should be aware of both your limitations and areas where you can improve. If you go out with your friends, never stop because of a relationship that you just got into, like that you have changed the way you are already and you are trying to act in a way you are not. Respect yourself, never be violated by your partner. Learn to say no to whatever you don't like and always love yourself before anyone else

WOMAN TO WOMAN

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     I don't know if its only me that asks myself why women call other women, telling them to stop calling, texting and seeing  their boyfriends ,as if  it was the woman that approached the guy. You know what SIS....? The person you should be dealing with and resolving this issue with is your so called BOYFRIEND, YOUR MAN that isn't behaving and  not sticking to one. Don't get me wrong that I am suggesting that the ''other woman''  is innocent in all this, but the fact of the matter is, if you deal with your man, that woman ceases to be the problem. Don't treat the symptoms, treat the cause!   Your man sees women every single day. He interacts with them, flirt, talks and gets involved with some. If you happen to find out about one of them, where is the logic of calling that woman? I swear, I would understand if you were just calling the woman to verify or to confirm your suspicions. but to call a woman and say: ''LEAVE  MY MAN ALONE!'' I...

TRUST

  Trust is a super important part of a healthy relationship, but it’s something that many people struggle with, for a lot of different reasons. What does trust mean? Trusting someone means that you think they are reliable, you have confidence in them and you feel safe with them physically and emotionally. Trust is something that two people in a relationship can build together when they decide to trust each other. You can’t demand or prove trust; trusting someone is a choice that you make.

THINGS TO LOOK FORWARD INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP

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  When you’re considering a committed relationship with someone special, take time to figure out exactly what you’re getting into. After all, your love is a gift. Don’t you want that gift going to someone who truly deserves it? These green flags will help you decide if you’ve found someone worthy of your love: 1. You Can Be Yourself You don’t feel like you’re performing or acting in a way that is not authentic to your true self. You also feel like you can be honest and speak your mind without fear of judgment or ridicule. It’s important to start from a genuine understanding of one another; otherwise, you’ll be building your relationship upon lies and that never ends well. 2. You Find Yourself Laughing And Smiling A Lot You enjoy being around them. It’s really that simple. In the early stages of a relationship, feeling good in one anothers presence is a green flag. Do you feel joyful? Are you smiling more than you usually do? Are your friends noticing a positive change i...

RELATIONSHIPS ARE HARDER NOW

 NOW  because Conversations became texting,   Arguments became phone calls,   Feelings became subliminal messages,   Sex became easy, The word ''love'' is used out of context, Insecurities became a way of thinking, Getting jealous became a habit, Trust is hard to come by,  Being hurt became natural and Leaving became the only option. TOO SAD BUT TRUE,SO IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT'S WORTH IT...... DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED, YOU GOT TO FIGHT FOR IT & DO NOT LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOVE CULTIVATES LOVE

 SOMETIMES people are quick to give their hearts to people who don't deserve them. How can you be with someone who has  made it crystal-clear that he/ she doesn't love you? And you decide that this is the person you want to give your heart to? A man/ women that treats you only like ' 'an option '' ,possibly even someone who is already in a relationship with someone else and has obviously given his heart to that person. Now ......why on earth would you be sitting there, pining in love with this person? I assure you, you can learn to let love cultivate love. Meaning that the more love someone gives you, the more your love grows too. BELIEVE ME, IT IS VERY POSSIBLE

APPOINTMENT LETTER IN RELATIONSHIPS

 You know when  you get a  new job, you will be given an appointment letter. Whereby you will find all the details of your employment. Now...... my question is: Wouldn't it be great if relationships could work in the same way?  You meet somebody and see that you are both attracted to each other. However the day you both decide to actually start a relationship, you will sit down and give each other your Appointment letters with a break down of what exactly you are looking for and what you are hoping to get out of the relationship. The reason why I brought this up is that too many people find themselves in relationships with no clue as to how they got there.  I feel like the appointment letter helps!

HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU !

 I bet you have been wondering on how to know whether he is into you or not. There are most obvious tell-take signs that tells you that he is into you or not,which are: * He never calls,only you do the calling. * When you do call him, he is very happy to hear from you as if he is the one that initiated for the call, but the moment you are done, it is out of sight out of mind for him. * He is ever busy when you text or call him,but you know what? Nobody is ever too busy,if they truly care, they will make time for you. * Whenever you have to do something together, you are the one who always drives the process. You have to keep pushing for him to make time for you. * The only time he makes an effort to see you, is when he wants to get together for sex, which sometimes makes me think that  dating is all about sex.  SIS, pay attention to the signs. Sometimes it's exactly what it looks like. To the GUYS  tell me whether any of this is true or not since this is what i have ...

OPEN RELATIONSHIPS

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 I have learned that many of us do not know what an open relationship is. Many people mistake this phrase to mean open as in "open and honest" relationship. An '' Open relationship '' refers to a relationship  where both parties have the right or permission to sleep with other people outside of the relationship. My question is why be in a relationship at all? Having said that everybody has their lifestyle-choices and they will do what blows their hair back.     However, I am downcasted by the fact there are so many people out there who are in open                relationships when they are not entirely jubilant. Their partners enjoy the " alternative lifestyle''and they don't. but they do it just to keep the peace. Agree to something like that only if you are entirely and fully into it as well. Otherwise you really are hurting yourself and your relationship in the process.

How do you Fall Inlove with yourself ?

 The same way you fall inlove with someone else. Acknowledge the bad embrace the good and grow. It happens slowly because love takes time to build,so you take it day by day. Here are some steps: # You start being kinder to your self. # Talk to yourself  with the same kindness and respect as you would someone vital to you. # You recognize your mistakes , but also decide to forgive yourself for them. # You spend purposeful time getting to know yourself , the same way you would spend time getting to know someone you are interested in # Discover what you like and dislike. And everything else is inbetween. You don't wait until you are perfect to begin loving yourself either because if you think about it, you love others not because they are perfect, but because they are them. You love them as they are,at their best and at their worst. Love yourself in an unconditional way also. You start by giving yourself the same type of love, time, and commitment you have given to others.

MY EVERYDAY LIFE MOTIVATION

 1. I am blessed!🤗 2. I am wonderfully and fearfully made !💃 3. I have a sound mind!😍 4. My mind is blessed !🥰 5. I am am a Star!🤗 6. I am more than a conqueror!😁 7. I fear no Evil !🚮 8. I am Gods beloved daughter !❤

Friend zone

 I heard more women complaining that they cannot find any good men. Well,I have news for you. There are loads of great men out there. You know where they are? In the "friend zone" where you left them! You left him in there and told him you "like him too much" and you just don't "see him that way ". And then you  went running after  the bad boy who forgets your name sometimes, because  he is more fun. Listen women!things don't work like that You left behind  a man who worships the very ground that you  walk upon and went and ran after  the guy who will only call you  at 2 a.m after has gone out partying with his boys and struck out with the girls he met at the club. It gets me thinking everyday that why do we only like bad boys? The good boy is just  too boring for us,you  enjoyed  the thrill and excitement of being with the bad boy. You know what? Many women think they are safer dating a bad boy than they are dating a good boy. You ...