Friend zone

 I heard more women complaining that they cannot find any good men. Well,I have news for you. There are loads of great men out there. You know where they are? In the "friend zone" where you left them! You left him in there and told him you "like him too much" and you just don't "see him that way ". And then you  went running after  the bad boy who forgets your name sometimes, because  he is more fun.

Listen women!things don't work like that

You left behind  a man who worships the very ground that you  walk upon and went and ran after  the guy who will only call you  at 2 a.m after has gone out partying with his boys and struck out with the girls he met at the club.

It gets me thinking everyday that why do we only like bad boys? The good boy is just  too boring for us,you  enjoyed  the thrill and excitement of being with the bad boy.

You know what? Many women think they are safer dating a bad boy than they are dating a good boy. You see now,their logic is that they know a bad boy is trouble, so they will only go to him for fun and won't fall in love. But it always go wrong  because the do fall in love with the bad boy.

Then they end up going back and Crying on the shoulder of the poor guy that they friend-zoned. This pushes him even deeper into the friend-zone.


Wake up Woman! And do things that needs to be done


Comments

  1. Maria4 September 2020 at 02:10

    It's what I always say, not all men are trash, there are good men out there but the problem is that he might not be what you want.

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  2. Unknown4 September 2020 at 02:37

    Exactly, sometimes we think we are making a good choice but we all end up getting hurt and we regret everything so not all of them are bad so it's time to make the right decision now

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  3. Oivanovic_Natangwe_Hambinga4 September 2020 at 03:35

    Well said! I can relate, this is the reason why am single because she didn't realize that am a good boy. She is exactly doing the same thing now "Then they end up going back and Crying on the shoulder of the poor guy that they friend-zoned" 🤷‍♂️

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  4. My baby6 September 2020 at 09:24

    It's about time, to accept that what is not meant is not just meant, you will get what is yours but not all men are trash neither women

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  5. Cheeseboi����11 September 2020 at 14:53

    This is awesome and I would like to read more

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  6. Victoria Shigwedha11 September 2020 at 15:01

    Real men are out there and they deserve to be treated like kings.

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  7. Hanno11 September 2020 at 15:03

    Fact will always remain ladies never know a good guy when they see one

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  8. Ligolah11 September 2020 at 15:07

    Is not always about what we want, it's about what God planned for us. Great men are out there and you won't find them until you stop saying all men are trash.

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  9. Unknown11 September 2020 at 15:14

    Keep Praying and pushing

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  10. Unknown11 September 2020 at 15:33

    😍🥰

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  11. Elise T11 September 2020 at 15:46

    I think us women, we are blind when it comes to good men, sometimes men act weird infront of you (girlfriend) just doing it willingly, by testing your knowledge if you do real love him or not. To make it short, from there, is where we are ending up dating corwad. (Social media kwaitos).

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  12. Sharon Iyambo11 September 2020 at 15:58

    I should probably go check my friend zone and see if o left my manz there by accident 😂😂😅

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  13. Unknown11 September 2020 at 16:02

    This is true💯! And fun ends as you grow, SO WAKE UP!

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  14. MarthaMytah11 September 2020 at 16:03

    Ofcourse us women are risking it...saying someone is just a friend might seem to be a good idea for now ,but there are some problems with it

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  15. willy11 September 2020 at 16:16

    True man like me we are out here

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  16. Zelda 11 September 2020 at 16:29

    This one is really educative.
    Wait ing for more to come. Can't take my eyes off this. Interesting!

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  17. Louise Penna Foibe11 September 2020 at 16:37

    So the good guys are in the friend zone??
    Watch me choose from there from now 💃💃

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  18. Ndapewa11 September 2020 at 16:50

    😍interesting topic😍

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  19. Pehovelo11 September 2020 at 16:54

    Well said 👌👌

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  20. Jase11 September 2020 at 16:54

    A very good topic 👌

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  21. Jase11 September 2020 at 16:54

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  22. Iyaloo Shiikwa 11 September 2020 at 17:08

    This is touching

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  23. Emma P.T Nawa11 September 2020 at 17:46

    How will I know that the guy is more fun or not?

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    1. Emma's blog11 September 2020 at 18:38

      By simply making so many jokes ,talking stories, taking each other out for fun. That way you will know whether this guy likes jokes, to talk more and so forth, but if he is ever angry ,don't talk about anything I am sure that will be like a dead relationship you will have and you wouldn't want to have it like that.

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  24. Tuhafenisk11 September 2020 at 20:35

    Wow very interesting

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  25. Kristine M Johannes11 September 2020 at 21:43

    The heart wants what it want and I guess the good men are sometimes cowards they don't express their feelings sooner until they get into that friend zone and it gets hard for a lady to date someone they have confessed all their sins to

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  26. Iyaloo11 September 2020 at 22:35

    And you just said it👏👏👏 girls really be out here looking for the perfect guy that they friend zoned.

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  27. Noxido Nauyoma11 September 2020 at 22:53

    Interesting story

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  28. Anonymous11 September 2020 at 23:07

    And the one you friend zone and leave behind is the one that would always give you his whole but we still end up going for the one we “apparently” like.

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  29. Unknown11 September 2020 at 23:25

    Interesteing topic I think us woman really need to see this just for clarity.

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  30. Inasheni12 September 2020 at 00:08

    I am going to dend this piece of writing to all my crushes hahaha,

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  31. NdallyShidolo12 September 2020 at 00:10

    Bad boys be giving the vibes mohs😂😂, kidding😂, but for reals, it’s mostly us young women that be wanting them bad boys, cause all we want is a vibing and apparently a cool relationship,,, forgetting that doing the little things in a relationship with a good boy that you truly love brings out the best of it

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  32. 3729cfp201912 September 2020 at 00:41

    This is very impressive....😊😘 keep up good work 🤗

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  33. Antonio paulina12 September 2020 at 02:08

    Keep up noele. Fine fine job

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  34. Toini12 September 2020 at 02:18

    Got to go back and search in my friend zone ,if it’s like that

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  35. Unknown12 September 2020 at 02:20

    This is incredible, push hard miss

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  36. Kenny12 September 2020 at 02:45

    Inspirational

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  37. Emma blogger12 September 2020 at 03:01

    This will only work out when you trust ,respect ,and appreciate each others.. As we all know that love is blind ..you can love a guy but he will end up fooling you around without noticing it but at first you thought he's good enough for you ,if you are a man take care of her bro..you never know what's install for you..Men will embrass you sis..choose wisely

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  38. Unknown12 September 2020 at 04:40

    well said.

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  39. Unknown12 September 2020 at 09:37

    Interesting

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  40. Magadalena Andreas12 September 2020 at 13:02

    interesting indeed

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  41. cars fir sale12 September 2020 at 13:14

    🤟🤟

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  42. Martinez.na12 September 2020 at 17:03

    I think women fail to choose the good men for them��

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  43. shapwaselma12 September 2020 at 17:13

    We should always remember that people are different

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  44. English language grammar13 September 2020 at 02:06

    Desperate to hear more

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    1. Unknown13 September 2020 at 02:22

      Always try to stick around no matter how boring someone is!?

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    2. Linda Mbwale13 September 2020 at 02:51

      This was worth reading. 💯

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  45. Praise13 September 2020 at 04:32

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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  46. Sakeus Tuwilika Kagolo13 September 2020 at 12:23

    Seriously, women must know sometimes they leave someone fir a cruelty guy. Makevyour friend your partner

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  47. Unknown14 September 2020 at 13:26

    .

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  48. aily tulyna15 September 2020 at 16:27

    Interesting 🔥

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  49. Unknown18 September 2020 at 13:25

    I agree. However nothing is perfect in life. We can go for those on our friendzone as well and find oneself in more deep hot water. It's best if we accept what God has given us by loving yourself more and realize what really is for you. Great topic indeed! 👏

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