OPEN RELATIONSHIPS


 I have learned that many of us do not know what an open relationship is. Many people mistake this phrase to mean open as in "open and honest" relationship.

An ''Open relationship'' refers to a relationship  where both parties have the right or permission to sleep with other people outside of the relationship.

My question is why be in a relationship at all? Having said that everybody has their lifestyle-choices and they will do what blows their hair back. 

 However, I am downcasted by the fact there are so many people out there who are in open             relationships when they are not entirely jubilant. Their partners enjoy the " alternative lifestyle''and they don't. but they do it just to keep the peace. Agree to something like that only if you are entirely and fully into it as well. Otherwise you really are hurting yourself and your relationship in the process.

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  1. This is awesome and I would like to read more

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  4. Open relationship prevents bad things,๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘this is very nice

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  5. An open relationship is no less than a loo., it's unhealthy! Yeah,there are rules and the parties involved are known by both partners but well these doesn't make it look less toxic! I mean why can't you love yourself enough for just one partner? How confident are you that your partner won't fall and elope with the other party? Not to mention jealousy and comparisons that might just rip it all off. Why being in a relationship at all when you know you can choose your lifestyle... No string attached, No intimacy, maybe just you and your way of living #player, prostitute#๐Ÿคท so to say but remember life humbles people!

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  6. ***this is nice as I'm getting to know some of the things didn't know before

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  7. Excellent ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  8. I have learnt something today ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  9. Very well said. It is very important to iron out any misunderstanding to avoid damage to you and the relationship.

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  10. OK, open relationship??? yes I can read this words but I can not relate.
    I'm grateful that you bringing up unfamiliar topics for us to be familiar.

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    1. To me an open relationship is a sign of unsatisfactory and disrespect,if you chose me then it's me,not any other person,that's why you should choose wisely so that you dont go look for something elsewhere...we live in a cruel world with so many diseases and this is just another way of spreading them.. this was just my opinion,but everyone is free to do as they see fit

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  11. I learned a lot from that thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  12. Why be in a relationship when you can sleep with whoever comes???
    Better be single and enjoy all you want

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  13. Meaning I’ve been having the wrong definition of “an open relationship” this whooooole time๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพ‍♀️

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  14. This it the situation were most of people found their self.... on point๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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  15. This is beautiful Marlon ....๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜Š

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  16. I learned what I didn't know..
    Thank you very much๐Ÿ˜

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  17. Well said๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ

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  18. Informative indeed๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ

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  19. Some of us are not even in relationships ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพ‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพ‍♀️
    But now I know

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  20. Well, to me, open relationship is something that needs more attention before both parties take it or live it.
    It sounds like it's for people who have no relevant reasons to date. It's for people who enjoy sex and all the time they see a beautiful girl or cute guy coming close they intend to seduce. It's high time we ask our partners if they have some good plans for us, and someone having good plans can not go for open relationship. The way we are seeing people being exposed, that eveil things may become more and more and imagine how it may happen to you as a lady or a guy one day, how will you rate open relationship?

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  21. "I think an one relationship means to be open to each other not hiding any secret even if it help you" just giving a piont of view

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  22. ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ

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  23. Thank you for explaining in more details, I took it wrong, now I know what is open relationship.
    Wish I could have a relationship right now๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

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  24. its either you with me or not. The relationship will never be the same knowingly you slept with someone else the thought of going bk will always trigger.

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  25. People have got different takes on everything around us, but I don't think there is a problem with an open relationship as long you and your partner knows what you're doing and why you have to do it then I don't think there will be problems.

    Another appealing characteristic of this kind of relationship is that it grants you and your partner the freedom to pursue other people in a way that's based on mutual respect, open communication, and total honesty.


    NB: Different people, Different thoughts

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  26. From my own point of view. Open relationship develops a great trust and for real relationships there's nothing to hide if you true to your partner and really want to build up๐Ÿ‘Œ
    Good one Marlon๐Ÿ’ฏ

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  27. This is really awesome girl ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  28. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘true facts

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  29. Date in private ,love in private until it's time to get the point of getting married

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  30. I agree with you bestie. These are very true facts

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  32. Something new I just learned today

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  33. Even you don't want to be an open relationship your patner will still cheat on so rather opt for it then later it happen in secret

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  34. Wow, I needed that.. hurting aint obligations

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